We have a routine but still need some help!

We obviously have a routine down and are getting longer stretches between night time feedings, but how in the world do you get a baby to go sleep when you want/need them to? I really need Mary Claire to go to sleep before midnight every night! She takes her last bottle from 9-10pm and the next one is not until 3-4:30am or so. But after that night time bottle, she is awake until at least 12am....that's not going to be cool when I go back to work. So any suggestions via comments, e-mails to me, phone calls, etc would be great!!! We thought she was asleep by 11pm last night as we tried putting her in her swing, but as soon as we moved her to her bassinet she woke up. So far we've tried putting her in the bed with us, holding and rocking her, and her swing. Any suggestions????

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